While You Wait
Some girls are waiting to meet their partners before they start living their lives. They put everything on hold, they refuse to live, to have fun and look forward to the future because the guy hasn't arrived yet.
These kind of women never know who they really are. They never get to explore the person they are inside. They usually live other people's lives: like a best friend, a cherished sibling or a parent's. They're never their own person. So when the man eventually comes, she will live his life, do his bidding and if a day comes when she finds her self, problems arise. She becomes "obstinate and unsubmissive".
Some women jump into marriage without any idea of what they need and want in a man. He just proposes and that's it!
Please, live while you wait. Find out who you are so you can know what you want. Have fun with yourself. Travel if you can. See the world. Get knowledge. Please. Don't settle for less, too many people out there already have. Dare to love yourself, dare to be an amazing person.
It's not true that there are no good men out there. It's not true that you won't find one, because you will. It all depends on you.
You just have to be someone worth staying with. You have to be a blessing to your significant other. You need to compliment him. Don't ever say "if he truly loves me, he'll accept me for who I am", because it depends on who you are.
Are you a slob, untidy and unkempt? Do you have a bad attitude? Do you engage in malicious gossip? Do you have hygiene issues? Are you jobless, with no lucrative business ideas? Are you proud, rude?
If you know that you have a bad attitude, don't ever say that anyone should love you for who you are. You must try to be lovable, because it's very hard for a human being with blood coursing through their veins to love a terrible person. That person has to have a very big heart to be able to do so.
Take a moment to evaluate your life; what sort of attitude do you have? What do you know about the society you live in, your culture and traditions? What do you know about other lands? What do you know?
Don't be just the best piece of ass someone has ever had, because there are much better ones out there, believe me. Be a great piece of work that they want to be with forever.
Find yourself first. Know yourself. Know what you want. Then find him. Know him. Determine if he's what you want because it is your individuality that will strengthen your love.
Dare to be awesome.
These kind of women never know who they really are. They never get to explore the person they are inside. They usually live other people's lives: like a best friend, a cherished sibling or a parent's. They're never their own person. So when the man eventually comes, she will live his life, do his bidding and if a day comes when she finds her self, problems arise. She becomes "obstinate and unsubmissive".
Some women jump into marriage without any idea of what they need and want in a man. He just proposes and that's it!
Please, live while you wait. Find out who you are so you can know what you want. Have fun with yourself. Travel if you can. See the world. Get knowledge. Please. Don't settle for less, too many people out there already have. Dare to love yourself, dare to be an amazing person.
It's not true that there are no good men out there. It's not true that you won't find one, because you will. It all depends on you.
You just have to be someone worth staying with. You have to be a blessing to your significant other. You need to compliment him. Don't ever say "if he truly loves me, he'll accept me for who I am", because it depends on who you are.
Are you a slob, untidy and unkempt? Do you have a bad attitude? Do you engage in malicious gossip? Do you have hygiene issues? Are you jobless, with no lucrative business ideas? Are you proud, rude?
If you know that you have a bad attitude, don't ever say that anyone should love you for who you are. You must try to be lovable, because it's very hard for a human being with blood coursing through their veins to love a terrible person. That person has to have a very big heart to be able to do so.
Take a moment to evaluate your life; what sort of attitude do you have? What do you know about the society you live in, your culture and traditions? What do you know about other lands? What do you know?
Don't be just the best piece of ass someone has ever had, because there are much better ones out there, believe me. Be a great piece of work that they want to be with forever.
Find yourself first. Know yourself. Know what you want. Then find him. Know him. Determine if he's what you want because it is your individuality that will strengthen your love.
Dare to be awesome.
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