Love Unrequited
Being in love is the best feeling ever. It makes you see things anew. It makes all things beautiful. It evens out problems. It makes you look forward to tomorrow. It makes life worthwhile.
Assuming you're loved in return.
Nothing hurts more than unrequited love. Or feeling more for your partner than they do for you. Especially when all you do is centered around them, when you live for them and forget yourself.
It really is unhealthy to be in a relationship where your feelings for each other are not mutual. If you feel more, its going to hurt like crazy. Your partner is going to seem selfish and unfeeling because you're doing all these things for them and they don't reciprocate. Its going to feel like you're insignificant so here's my advice:
Talk to your partner about your feelings. Find out how they feel about you and if you know its not enough, please get out of that relationship. You may not believe it right now but there's someone out there who is going to cherish you so much that you'd have to pinch yourself a thousand times to assure yourself you're not dreaming.
Don't ever lie to yourself. Don't make excuses for your partner when its obvious you're not the one for them. Don't be blind. Open your eyes wide. To avoid hurting you, they may try to make you believe that they feel the same way you do but my friend, actions prove so much more than words. If they're not attentive and affectionate to a considerable amount then there's no point. When someone says to you 'I love you' you should be able to respond with 'I know.' Always.
Don't make any man/woman the centre of your life. Please. Develop interests. Find stuff that'll make you a better person. Travel. Hang out with your pals. Have a life because, my friend, if your entire life's happiness depends on that one person who doesn't even feel half of what you feel, its going to be hell when they leave. I say when because I know they will. So, save yourself the heartache you're still going to experience tomorrow and just leave.
When love comes, you will definitely know. Love doesn't lie. Its so transparent that even everyone around you would be nudging you and saying "He/she's so into you". Its true.
I hope this helps someone.
Till next time. Shalom!
Assuming you're loved in return.
Nothing hurts more than unrequited love. Or feeling more for your partner than they do for you. Especially when all you do is centered around them, when you live for them and forget yourself.
It really is unhealthy to be in a relationship where your feelings for each other are not mutual. If you feel more, its going to hurt like crazy. Your partner is going to seem selfish and unfeeling because you're doing all these things for them and they don't reciprocate. Its going to feel like you're insignificant so here's my advice:
Talk to your partner about your feelings. Find out how they feel about you and if you know its not enough, please get out of that relationship. You may not believe it right now but there's someone out there who is going to cherish you so much that you'd have to pinch yourself a thousand times to assure yourself you're not dreaming.
Don't ever lie to yourself. Don't make excuses for your partner when its obvious you're not the one for them. Don't be blind. Open your eyes wide. To avoid hurting you, they may try to make you believe that they feel the same way you do but my friend, actions prove so much more than words. If they're not attentive and affectionate to a considerable amount then there's no point. When someone says to you 'I love you' you should be able to respond with 'I know.' Always.
Don't make any man/woman the centre of your life. Please. Develop interests. Find stuff that'll make you a better person. Travel. Hang out with your pals. Have a life because, my friend, if your entire life's happiness depends on that one person who doesn't even feel half of what you feel, its going to be hell when they leave. I say when because I know they will. So, save yourself the heartache you're still going to experience tomorrow and just leave.
When love comes, you will definitely know. Love doesn't lie. Its so transparent that even everyone around you would be nudging you and saying "He/she's so into you". Its true.
I hope this helps someone.
Till next time. Shalom!
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