Minding Each Other

Sometimes, we try to make sense of a particular issue. We search in our hearts for a solution. We try to think it through, to think up a way out. We try so hard but it doesn't happen.

Then we have a conversation with someone. We listen to what they are saying or not saying.

It could be just a word, a sentence, a gesture, a smile or a laugh. It could be anything, but that anything could illuminate that dark patch of the mind.

We really should mind each other every now and then.

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