Sometimes You Have To Treat People The Way They Treat You

Some people are confirmed time wasters. They have nothing to do with their time so they have no conscience in their intrusion on yours. They get you to believe in them only for them to keep you hanging. They are selfish, they only think of themselves and what they will benefit from you all the while having other options. When they find someone with more benefits than you, they toss you aside and only remember you when they need something from you. They recognizable by their flighty attitude, they change their mind at will, they are unfocused, they change plans often and are so unpredictable. They make other plans and don't carry you along until you notice their absence and reach out to them and that's when they grudgingly tell you what they are doing, if ever.

Listen to me, stop being a doormat to people. Be nice and kind to those who are same to you. Stop being a matyr, you will only get stoned to death.

Listen to me, if you don't think of yourself, people would hardly do that. If you are not selfish to a reasonable degree, you will not achieve much in life. If you do not put yourself first, no one will.

Stop calling people selfish when you can be too. Enough of the victim mentality. Gird up your loins and do you. Focus on you, please. Stop looking to please someone else when they are not looking to please you too. It is wash my back, I wash yours not only you washing people's backs all the time. No wonder, there's so much grime on your back.

Jesus says, "be harmless as a dove but wise as a serpent"

Enough said.

Shalom.