Rekya's Flavors

Some people are confirmed time wasters. They have nothing to do with their time so they have no conscience in their intrusion on yours. They get you to believe in them only for them to keep you hanging. They are selfish, they only think of themselves and what they will benefit from you all the while having other options. When they find someone with more benefits than you, they toss you aside and only remember you when they need something from you. They recognizable by their flighty attitude, they change their mind at will, they are unfocused, they change plans often and are so unpredictable. They make other plans and don't carry you along until you notice their absence and reach out to them and that's when they grudgingly tell you what they are doing, if ever. Listen to me, stop being a doormat to people. Be nice and kind to those who are same to you. Stop being a matyr, you will only get stoned to death. Listen to me, if you don't think of yourself, people would hardl...

Sometimes, we look back on a past relationship and we smile, even wistfully. Other times, it is a whole lot of negative emotions; anger, pain, sadness, bitterness or even nausea. Bad things happen, this we know, and most of the time, there's no easy way to tell someone we are leaving them, there's no comforting way to hear it, but no matter how things turn out, if we must leave that person, we really should try to be as kind as possible. We really should learn to not plant grudges in people's hearts for us. If we must leave, we should do so as amicably as possible. If we truthfully tell that person that it is not working out and we need to move on, I believe they would understand. Maybe not immediately but eventually, they will recognize what we did and respect us for it. What are you putting into your relationships? Are you making quality memories? The kind of memories that would evoke warmth after the love is gone? Would you be sorely missed if you left or would yo...