Marry Your Kind
Please, marry your kind... If you truly want peace in your home and joy in your marriage, choose someone whose spirit aligns with yours. Bros , if makeup, human hair, jewelry, and glamour do not appeal to you, that is fine, but then seek a woman who shares those values. Do not pursue a vibrant, expressive woman and then try to silence her brightness after marriage. Do not marry a strong-minded woman hoping to bend her into submission. That is not love, that is control, and it will only bring sorrow to both of you. Sis , please don’t put on a mask just to win a partner. Pretending to be someone you are not is not love, it is self-denial. No one can wear a disguise forever, and when it slips, pain follows. Be proud of who you are. Be true to yourself. That authenticity will draw to you the one who is meant for you. Bros , if a spirited woman captures your heart, be honest with yourself. If you cannot honor her as she is, then do not invite her into your life under false pretenses. It...